Essential Oils + Serendipity

I use several brands of essential oils, but my favorite brand is Rocky Mountain Oils. I started using them around the time of their merger with Native American Nutritionals. (I think that’s what the other company was called! It’s been so long.)

(Unrelated, it’s hard to focus as my cat, Pilot, is staring at me and rolling all around me.)

There he is!

In January of this year, I got a chat sent to me from Rocky Mountain Oils via Instagram. While I know I’m literally in the business of love, trust, acceptance and all that, I’m quite terribly skeptical, slightly cynical, and not very trusting. (Look, I’m a WIP like anyone else!!!)

This “passion project” of one of the owners of the oil company was presented to me as a Zoom interview by an assistant. The assistant would interview me and highlight what I’m doing in my tiny little corner of the world.

Did I mention how much I love their oils? I use their chakra oils weekly on myself and incorporate them into my practice pretty often. Also, I assure you, I’m not making any money if you click on the link or order from them. I’m just sharing what’s swell.

At any rate, the interview turned out to be a real thing. I was a nervous wreck. I’d seen some of their other videos (and by the way, I intend to watch as many as possible). There are SO many fascinating women out there doing their thing, their wonderful, amazing thing–and I find them all so inspirational. This passion project is such a lovely idea.

Prior to the interview, I had prepared some information which was going to last about 5 minutes. Only when I got on the call, I was told that interest was dropping off at the 2-3 minute mark and I should try to keep it that short.

I blubbered through the darn thing trying to figure out what I wanted to touch upon. A great lesson in adaptation. But hey, all the same, I put myself out there.

I had truly just asked the Universe how I was supposed to have these kismet moments, serendipitous happenings anymore?

I rarely leave the house!

And the Universe said, you can still sync up, you can still get caught in the flow… through Instagram.🤪🤪🤪🤪

You can watch the madness here.

9 Unique Methods for Enhancing Your Mental Wellbeing

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by Guest Blogger Julia Merrill

Human minds often become accustomed to patterns and routines, which can create a plateau and impede our progress as individuals. That’s why Swellness Vibes has taken the time to outline a few unique techniques that you can use to kick-start your mental well-being and get yourself out of a rut.

1. Start Birdwatching

Birdwatching (or ornitherapy) can reduce symptoms of depression and provide an energy boost. Focusing on something outside of yourself takes your mind off of your troubles. Plus, time in nature has repeatedly been demonstrated to be soothing.

2. Try Improv Classes

Improv teaches you adaptability and provides the benefits of childlike play. Since improvising actors must accept the expressions and situations put forth by others, the exercise expands your awareness of others. The routines also teach acceptance without judgment.

3. Seek Innovative Counseling Methods

Therapy doesn’t just involve sitting on a couch and pouring out a history of your past. As psychiatry and psychology advance, new methods of coping with mental anguish are created to assist modern people. For example, ACT, or acceptance and commitment therapy, uses a principle of diffused mindfulness to help you observe your emotions with dispassionate curiosity. The Gottman Method has proven successful in assisting couples to create deeper bonds. You can also visit Swellness Vibes for more contemporary wellness tips!

4. Adjust Your Work Schedule

If you can work a hybrid schedule, take full advantage of your work-from-home time and increase your remote hours. The flexibility created by eliminating your commute makes space for mood-boosting activities like family time, exercise, extra sleep, and healthy meal prep.

5. Change Careers

When your current career leaves you disappointed and stressed, make plans to move on. Reports confirm that people spend fewer years with a company on average, and career changes are no longer seen as a negative item on your resume. Returning to school to earn a degree can position you to advance. Once you decide on your preferred degree, find an accredited online school. Compare tuition fees for competitive rates. With virtual studies, you can balance working full-time and caring for family obligations.

6. Adopt an Unconventional Pet

Cats and dogs need love, but many other pets would enjoy a warm home. Descented skunks are surprisingly playful and may not cause allergies. A lizard can be low-maintenance and fascinating to observe. Chinchillas are easy to keep in tiny homes and can live up to 20 years for long-lasting bonds. States vary in their regulations for what animals can be a pet, so check the laws before you bring a unique fuzzy or scaly friend home.

7. Declutter Your Life

Your dwelling needs to be a pleasurable retreat away from the outside world. Disarray creates confusion and can make your space unsafe. Avoid getting overwhelmed at the prospect of cleaning the whole home by targeting one room at a time, starting this weekend. Touch each item and sense if it brings you joy. Discard unnecessary and uninspiring items. Then create an organization system with creative containers and give every item a purposeful home.

8. Write Under a Pseudonym

If you want to put your experience into the world but are afraid of what family and acquaintances may think, start a blog under an assumed name. Now you have an outlet for your feelings and experiences without worrying about judgment.

9. Dunk Your Head in Cold Water

A variety of grounding techniques can be used to recalibrate when you’re spiraling. Submerging your head in cold water can serve as a gentle shock treatment to help you refocus when you’re overwhelmed.

Use these techniques to get started; in fact, along the way, you might encounter even more outside-the-box ways to enhance your mental health. Whatever you use, prioritize your self-care so you can be your best self!

Swellness Vibes is a site of offerings to feed your mind, body and soul. If you have any questions, please feel free to email infoallisonkeli@gmail.com.

Julia Merrill created BefriendYourDoc.org to share tips she has developed to help patients be their own advocate in seeking medical care, dealing with insurance companies, and contributing to their own health and well-being.

Continuing Ed Topics: Pain

This post wraps up the current series of continuing education, although I’m sure the next time I need to renew my license, I’ll have another series of the same.

Today’s topic is a great one, from a human perspective, from a bodywork perspective—pain

Pain is such a complicated and fascinating facet of existence. The word ‘pain’ is derived from Greek and means punishment or penalty. The continuing ed class I took was slightly dated–from 2013 I believe–so it goes without saying that the statistics from the class have since been updated. Yet, I assure you, the sentiment is going to be the same.

Here are the stats compiled for that 2013 class:

  • Pain is the number one reason why people go see doctors, and also the most common reason for seeking out alternative and complementary treatments.
  • In 2011, the Institute of Medicine reported that 100 million Americans reported chronic pain and that the price tag associated with said pain, annually, was $635,000,000. You know that price has just gone up.
  • 100 billion aspirin tablets are used annually in the world.
  • The shape and color of pain tablets significantly change the effectiveness of the drug.
  • Here’s a fun one to ponder: people over 60 tend to have less pain than those under 60.
  • Talk therapy and back therapy both help with back pain…statistically about the same.
  • Pain was considered a spiritual punishment prior to the 1600s. Only then did Rene Descartes attribute pain to tissue damage.

This model of tissue damage being the only source of pain creates a wall when chronic pain is compared to acute pain. With acute pain, you can usually point fingers to the source of the issue. When you remove the issue, pain theoretically goes away. 

Chronic pain usually doesn’t have a straight line connecting multiple dots. It typically has many lines creating a crazy pattern, thus making this type of pain unpredictable. Even if you remove all that seems to be causing the pain, the pain may not resolve. (This also makes me think of how you can cure something but not heal it, and vice versa.)

These facts lead to a rather large and looming factor about pain: Pain is an illusion. (But so is reality, right???)

I’m not sure about you, but this one sits sort of -eh- with me. But… as stated in the course packet for the class I took, “Tissue damage is not necessary or sufficient for pain.” 

From a personal bodywork perspective, I cannot tell you how many times–almost on a weekly basis–people will present with the same feel of the tissue. It could be a tightness, a knot, a collection of aggravated muscles–but one client will be miserable and the other one will tell me s/he feels great.

You know how much I love the brain. A client and I were just talking about the pain impulse coming only from the brain and not from the tissue or affected area at all. What then? (Ok, we know this can’t be the only way, just like the other way isn’t conclusive, either.)

There’s a study from 2004 (Derbyshire) that states “Brainwave patterns in people who think they are receiving painful stimulus but aren’t are almost identical to brainwaves of people actually receiving painful stimulus”.

The plot thickens…

We’ve all heard about phantom limb pain… again… our friend, the brain.

Under this umbrella, it kind of does look like the brain is causing the pains and not the other way around! It’s receiving the sensory input from the affected area, but depending on context, the person receiving it, memory, cellular memory… only then does the brain decide whether or not the sensory input painful.

Here’s the thing. And I’m not going to go into the particular population that likes pain–that’s another topic–but for the most part, we don’t like pain. We stray away from it. We do things to keep ourselves from being in pain.

Pain often alerts us when something is WRONG and needs attention. It keeps us from making more damage by asking us to change our behavior (like touching something hot). It can activate healing by encouraging us to get care (massages, chiropractic, etc). 

But. Pain can stop being of use when it’s no longer necessary for those responses.

According to this class, it’s believed that that brain processes pain like an emotion. Whether or not something reads as good or bad is an emotional assessment. Apparently brain studies have suggested that the midbrain is affected when something is painful, much like an emotion affects the midbrain. Pain can also be activated by the upper brain–for instance, if anxiety is an issue, pain can be perceived as worse.

The point of the class, I think, is that by observation or learning about pain, pain can be changed. There are studies suggesting that those who are invested in studying pain have less of it. If you can understand where it is coming from, it can lose its hold on you (whether or not you still feel it).

Of course, there’s the issue of chronic pain leading to brain conditions like depression, hypochondria, aforementioned anxiety, lack of sleep, cognitive impairment among others… which of course… can make pain worse.

It’s a slippery slope. I think the best way to deal with pain from a bodyworker’s perspective is honestly just to be attentive to the needs of the client. Offer validation by listening to the client and then palpating the affected area. Hopefully the combination of hearing the client as well as actively working the tissue is enough to offer even a tiny part of relief as part of a whole care regimen.

Thoughts about your own pain?

In Closing

Interestingly enough, when I typed in pain to find an image suitable for this post, the first images were all of emotional pain! And because of this emotional pain, these people were tightened into balls…which restricts movement..which can cause physical pain!

I’ve also purchased additional textbooks on the matter, so don’t be surprised if I talk about this fascinating topic again.

Thanks for reading!

Continuing Ed Topics: Longevity for LMTs

I have to have a bunch of continuing education hours for massage therapy finished by the end of February, so I figured I’d pick a topic or two to dissect in the Swellness blog.

This week’s topic is licensed massage therapists themselves — “principles of longevity”. In other words, how to make your career last longer than the typical 5 years or less for therapists. (Now, having said that, I do know plenty of people who have practiced much longer, including myself!)

Let’s talk alarming statistics, and please note — these stats are at least 10 years old! 77% of massage therapists experience musculoskeletal issues due to the nature of their work. About 40% get diagnosed with an official issue, and 20% have to take time off because of said injury. I think this explains why therapists tend to turn to other types of work after the 5-year mark.

I have certainly injured myself due to the nature of the work. I’ve tweaked my back, my shoulders, my hips, my arm, and my thumb. And that’s just off of the top of my head! I’ve never turned down a massage because of the injuries, but I’ve also sighed some relief while injured when realizing some of my appointments are Reiki and not massage! 🤪

Tips for Massage Therapists to Lengthen Their Careers

  1. Use less oil. Think about it: if you use too much oil, there’s easier glide on the body you’re working on. Less oil means more resistance, which means it’s easier to use your bodyweight as a tool in your practice. Otherwise you’re flopping around, finding zero stability.
  2. Create a friction point while doing cross-fiber techniques. Drape an arm across another arm to create the fulcrum! Think smarter, not harder!
  3. Saw the jaw with the palms of your hands rather than jabbing it with your thumbs. Aye! This is definitely something I plan on doing. I do jaw work on a client I see monthly. I bet the sawing method feels good, too. Anyone want to try it on me???
  4. Rock your client’s hips into the fist of a hand you are using. Great idea!
  5. Use a forearm to press a foot bottom into the fist of your other hand. I just tried this last night on my kid. He’s obsessed with foot massages.
  6. “Save your wrist, use a fist!” Yes, yes, I think LMTs already know this one.
  7. Use your patellar tendon as a massage tool, or knees in general to glide along quads, hamstrings, lower backs and hips. Apparently this isn’t as hard as it sounds, but I have yet to try it.
  8. TOOLS. Get them. Use them. I definitely need a thumb saver tool, I honestly don’t know why I haven’t tried one yet.

Happy massaging!

A Novel for Bodyworkers/Yogis/Magic Lovers

A little bit of self-promotion here.

I wrote a book about a bodyworker. Scenes take place in yoga studios, dojos and meditation rooms. There are crystals, runes, reiki, and elixirs.

While the story itself was therapeutic to write, the fun came in describing the world we holistic health people know and love. I call BS when BS needs to be called, I call confusion when Destiny vs Free Will is on the mind of our characters, and sneak in some recipes at the back of the book.

Read more about the book here.

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Happy Reading, Fellow Light Workers!